6 Basic Tips for Better Sex

A Gift to Yourself: 6 Basic Tips for Better Sex Can you remember back when sex was all you could think about with him? But as time passed, life happened and sex settled on the back burner. Do you wonder when did sex become bad, a chore and something to avoid? If so, it’s up to you to change it if it’s boring, boring, boring. Stoke the Fire: Do not wear that funky nightgown—you know which one: holes, stained, out of shape. Give it up and put on some soft, clingy lingerie. Ignore the Mind Chatter: Don’t spoil the mood. Talking about the office, work or your best friend can flip that mood real quick. He’s the only thing on your mind—even if it’s going a mile a minute with the problems of the day—real or imagined. Silence is Golden: You know you have his attention now but this is one lousy time to complain about the in-laws or kids. If You Do Talk: Talk him up, up, up. Tell him a lip-smacking story. Okay, he doesn’t do that special something the way you like it, so teach him. Premature ejaculation? Get professional help, because berating him will not produce long-term effects. Something Old. Something New: You’re probably too tired to try something new, but what the heck, go for it. Jump in the shower with him, help him shave, become Nurse Betty, buy “toys,” and videos (DVD’s) do help. Savor the Charm: Enjoy every touch, the feel of his skin touching your skin, the sensuousness of his kiss, the warmth of his arms around you. Sex is the most beautiful form of expressing your love towards your mate and will help keep your relationship healthy and intact. Remember that you have what many other women don’t have. Keep it that way.